1 Corinthians 4:1-6

There is a right way to judge others, and a wrong way to judge others. 

One of the wrong ways we judge each other is by taking the metrics of the surrounding culture and measuring others against those standards -- standards God never intended us to hold others to. 

It's like telling a soccer player she should have done more tackling of the other team; we would be judging her performance in a soccer game using football metrics. 

This is not only silly, but can prevent us from looking at our own hearts and being faithful with where our own roles.